Am i that SHY? or just a more digital person when it comes to affections.

Somebody once strolled up to me and sparked up a little convo, saying to me. 

"lex you appear to be a superior individual by means of advanced sources with regards to demonstrating fondness and affection to those you cherish and love".

This got me shocked and full of thoughts, ranging different angle of my emotions and reason for what this person said to me, and i was forced to ask "How do you mean?"

Here is what the colleague of mine said. 

"You are somebody who is great with words and you utilize them so pleasantly with that delicate and adorable voice of yours on CALLS, On SMS you can make the absolute best of messages and send to somebody regardless of the state of mind of condition the individual is and they will be lifted by the sms you send them, then there comes the bigger part of everything, when you CHAT with somebody on various short message applications, {You know how hard it can be and how the struggles of an introvert can be.} you know exactly when and how to hit the correct words and voila you make them feel solid and extraordinary with you not taking a look at to what extent you have known or met them." 

Lets not forget that we humans have our various ways to connect with people, some find it easy to do so and some don't, some may even try to be impressive to the new connects and end up harming the attempt than really making new friends in the process.

Presently this brings me to ask a couple questions from you my readers, how would you perceive yourself in methods for speaking with your friends, neighbors and every-other individual you interact with? 

Are you better of with the calls, sms, chats or you are way better when you are in close contact and discus with them?. 

I need to know how you folks do it?. i need to know whether its me been SHY or quite recently some kind of blessing or claim to fame for me...

31 comments:

  1. At times, I am good with face-to-face interactions and other times I am good with digital connect. Personally, I feel if you are a good writer then your chances are better on the digital medium (coz that's where we write these days). There are some people who are charming when it comes to face-to-face interactions, but that's them! Differs from person to person!

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    1. Anupriya u spoke my mind here, alot of us who write have the higher chances of being this way and not about being shy, so also, alot of face to face convos go well yet some dont. thanks for your contribution to this.

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  2. I think it depends, some are introverts some are extroverts and some are ambiverts. Wherever you fall in those would impact the way you interact with people. I don't think you're shy, you're just more expressive when it comes to words.

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    1. hmmm, thanks for this Elizabeth, am glad you had a straight up way to say it al that am more expressive with words. thanks alot.

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  3. Lex Bro! This is actually the first time am going through your blog and i must say " You've made it to the top ", You're good @ what you do.
    Am impressed and motivated by what i see here, the attention you get from your readers is truly a unique one.

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    1. am honoured confy scenty, as always, do feel free to interact and find what you desire through this blog.

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  4. I'm extrovert, but when dealing with emotions, I find it so much easier to write out what I'm thinking and feeling. I'm not sure why. May be it's because you can get the words just write.

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    1. i can relate to this, when those emotions cloud us up we can only but write dem out for people than just go through the mental stress of saying what may not go well with out thoughts.

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  5. I don't think that shyness makes us better when using the phone or the computer to communicate. I think it is easier to say what we feel when there is a screen between us because we have time to think, while in real life we would need to react straight away.

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    1. thats just a clear one there, the time to react is so short one on one but virtual wise, we have all the time in the world.

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  6. I like face to face better. Sometimes you just don't know how to take words because you don't know how the person is "saying" it.

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    1. true though as sometimes when we face you, how you say it becomes real than when its virtual.

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  7. Face to face conversation is much better. The conversation is raw, no filter and very true. And you can easily express your thoughts and saves a lot of time.

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  8. I am a people person, I just love to talk and learn about others, I have never been accused of being shy!!

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    1. people person, i love the combination. good stuff.

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  9. I think that a real conversation, I mean face to face is better than a virtual one. You have the possibility to express your thoughts without misunderstanding. You can be real :) - A.

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  10. I am better in digital connect. I can express myself freely and responsibly. I like the few minutes that I can think before I reply to other people. I don't really like face to face interaction, some people misunderstood me because of the tone of my voice and my facial expression.

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    1. Everyone can agree that digital connect gives more freedom than face to face.

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  11. I love connecting digitally. Face 2 face is nice, but with people I know well. It's way easier to make connections online. Find likeminded people and get to know people. I love the digital!

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    1. Cool stuff, digital works well for me then.

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  12. Lex I'm just shy. I'm better at digitally connecting then I am in real life.

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    1. Aw!, I can relate to that very well, hopefully you become better in real life convo in the nearest future.

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  13. I am pretty shy. I prefer chatting or emailing to actually seeing someone. Sometimes companies will ask if they can call, and I request an e-mail instead.

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  14. This just depends on so many different factors for me, like did I have my coffee in the morning? Am I having a fairly conflict free day? Am I behind on work projects? I think I'm an ambivert, not introverted not extroverted. It's all relative, I guess.

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  15. I feel like such an introvert at times! Im fantastic at texts, but hate talking on the phone. I will avoid it at all costs, lol

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  16. I can certainly relate. I absolutely hate talking on the phone especially!

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  17. Though sms and chats give syou quick responses, i still prefer face-to-face meeting, or email exchange especially for things that needs concrete decision making.

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  18. I'm a terrible texter--my sms messages are often too short and leave my recipients wondering my context. I do better face-to-face, where I can convey emotion through expression and I often use physical comedy to diffuse difficult messages.

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  19. I am a little of both. Times where I am a total introvert and others where I can be WAY out there. Really depends on my surroundings and who I am with at the time

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