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What Everybody Ought to Know About FRIENDSHIP.

Just like the heading you see, its easy to come out and say we have friends, yet its also as easy as ABC, to come out in public and say we don't have friends..

the question running through everyone's mind right now should be WHY, WHO, WHERE, WHEN and HOW.. but you should take more time to ask yourself more questions and see for yourself why you would have asked these questions.

do you make friends for a certain benefit or you make friends for making sake? till the very day you ascertain the reason behind your aim and purpose for making friends then that day i know you have landed and truly decided on what best suits you. Remember that friendship inst just all about sayings but also entails a lot of actions to show in fulfillment the need and essence of it all.

just as someone will say to you someday "is it safe to give out bank account number" to some one asking about "online business costs" trust me all these questions come with a lot of issues to be highlighted in making friends, because as important as they are so also is your friendship with whoever you decide to.
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Now follow these steps and see how strong your build to friendship goes..

learn to choose your friends and not your friends choosing you.

learn to always say no when you feel your yes isnt important.

learn to accept your limits and push to that same limit for more success.

make your friendship circle a small close one, so as to know the true ones.

be as open as a book to your chosen friends.

be as smart and watchful as a fox.

learn their weakness. {but dont ever use it against them}.

learn their strengths. {help them get more to it}.

always be there for them no matter what it is, good, bad or ugly.

learn to tell them their faults even if it hurts so bad.{they will appreciate your painful and bitter truth than your sweet lies}.

when making friends try to know a whole lot about them. {academically, spiritually, socially, psychologically and all wise so as to be sure you are aligning with some with similar or uplifting traits to you and not someone who will only bring you down with HIS/HER ways/nature}.

above all, put GOD into it all and let him guide you into implementation. 

feel free to drop your thoughts on this...and also point out errors or goods in this post.. goodnight world..
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76 comments:

  1. Lex, good post on friendship. I value friendship very much. I am still friends with people I met in the third grade.

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    1. tnx as always roy...i apprciate, yea, i keep the real good old ones dan i do the new fake ones..

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  2. Some have abused the word, I don't keep friends anymore, gone were the days.

    No time for shit

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    1. lol, no time for shit.....now you don para-mode o, easy with them doh...

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  3. Good post about friendship. Keep writing.

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  4. Oya chop knuckle lex! For me its those who motivate, inspire or criticize me thqt are my friends. I got no friendship outside those circles o, the rest na family.


    Be motivated, be Inspired! http://fabulousdami.blogspot.com/2016/01/be-motivated-be-inspired.html

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  5. I really like how you talked about learning their strengths, that's one of the most important things of mine when it comes to being a friend - learn their strengths and help them build upon it! Good post.

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    1. yes ashley, we should learn to work for people dan work against them you know... am glad you enjoyed readin this..

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  6. This gives me a lot to think about when it comes to people and trust

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    1. yes caroline, think more about friends you make, keep and have,.............. it will help alot..

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  7. Friends are an integral part of my life. I usually don't make many friends but the ones I have are precious to me. True friendship is about supporting each other and pointing out each other's faults as well.
    Thanks for sharing this beautiful post.

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  8. I would say the only friends I have for now are my loved ones. If you fall in that category, then you're my friend.
    Alabekee's Blog

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  9. if only friends can learn this.

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  10. Friends are for life ....btw good post...keep going

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  11. I've always said that our friends build us into the person we want to be because we learn from them.

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    1. if a friend isnt teaching you a thing, or you are not learning a thing from them, that isnt a friend... thanks Heiress for this one..

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  12. Yes, it's important to be thoughtful about your friends. People have to give but learn to set limits. It is not being a good friend to let someone take advantage of you!

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    1. the part of not letting them take advantage of you seems the most important part...

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  13. I completely agree. Friendship is fickle - and sometimes takes some work. But it's totally worth it.

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  14. My friendships are so beautiful! I love my friendships and I cherish them very close to my heart. If you are a good friend, your friends will be good to you.

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    1. So true yet sometimes, some will betray your goodness.

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  15. I'd add: let your friends go when you feel that the time has come. :-) thank you for sharing your thoughts

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    1. Aw!! I like how you added that line, so real.

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  16. Keeping in mind that we just celebrated Freidnship Day, this article is quite apt to the current situation and scenario in friendship.

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    1. So true Subhadrika. Am glad you can relate to it.

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  17. True friendship is to understand and to be understood! It's also a kind of value. Great post!

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  18. Great post on friendship! My school friends are friends for life! As H. Jackson Brown, Jr. said “ Remember that the most valuable antiques are dear old friends."

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  19. I couldn't agree more with this. My best friend I have known her since I was a little kid. Friendships should be truly valued and cherished, great post.

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    1. I have a friend like that also, from little till now and we are cool like that.

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  20. Happy National Friendship day, I agree friendship should be valued and never taken advantage of!

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  21. I value friendship and i am very cautious as to who i allow in my inner circle

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  22. Nice insight! Everyone should follow this. Thanks for sharing.

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  23. I like the be as smart and watchful as a fox. I have not always been that in friendships and got burnt by it. So yes, We do need to also be watchful in our friendships.

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    1. being watchful is just the best way to stay clear and safe in any relationship..

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  24. Great post. It's important to build the right kinds of relationships, but even more important to invest in them.

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    1. invest in them sounds very nice, investing your time and resource so they also do same for you...

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  25. I'm lucky to have a small group of friends - we've been friends since high school so we're really more like sisters! So yeah, keep the circle tight and close. Then you'd know who'll be around through the years.

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    1. small and close circle is where the magic truly is.

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  26. These are great things to think about. There is a lot more to establishing and maintaining friendships than meets the eye.

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  27. Well said, being open with the friends you trust will make them realize how much they mean to you!

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  28. This is a great post. I hold all relationships in my life - especially friendships very close to my heart.

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  29. I know a lot of people but I wouldn't say that I have a lot of friends. I am a very private person and I rarely open up to people. These are good points about keeping friendships. It's important, just like in any relationship, to invest your time on your friends.

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  30. A great post on friendship! My friendships are a few close knit friends. I keep them very close and we know just about everything there is about the other and there are no secrets.

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    1. With no secrets friendships last a lifetime, am happy for you.

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  31. This is perfect advice. Trying to be friends with someone just become they may offer you something in return will blow up in your face. Another thing people should do: don't be afraid to clean out toxic people from your life!

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    1. yea Daisy, cleaning out the bad eggs in friendship is a must from time to time.

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  32. Good friends are hard to find and not all friends are friends. I considered a friend as someone whom even I didnt speak for years are there when I needed comfort, friends are there to offer their support.

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    1. thats it, always there whenever you need them and not the other way round...

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  33. Nice post. Friendship is really important and one of the best things in life.

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    1. so true, one of it not the best thing in life...

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  34. I don't have "friends" unless my coworkers count? lol I do consider them friends but I don't talk or hang out with them outside of work. My family is most important to me and who I'd rather spend time with. ๐Ÿ˜Š I never kept in contact with my high school friends after a couple of years.

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    1. nah, to me coworkers dont count as friends, am working on a post on that , soon it will be up here... thanks for your contribution.

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  35. This is really good sound advise on finding good friendship. It's important to find good people in our life rather than just accepting any kind of friendship for the sake of it.

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  36. I think there can be different levels of friendship, but there's no use to hang on people who just suck all the energy around you.

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