Must you be like everyone? (Updated)

You must not be like everyone. Be Unique.

 Good evening...

Its another delightful Thursday evening and I have to bestow this peace to everyone who keeps running over to my blog in one way or the other...

In any case, before that..
you can be different in your own way

How would you be able to have possessed the capacity to you keep running over to my blog?...

search engine? Google.com, Ask.com, et cetera

From a friend or partner?.

Facebook re-direct?

Twitter re-direct?

My feed burners?

On the other hand would you say you are a buddy of mine whom I almost certainly told about my blog?

Whichever way, am glad you did in light of the fact that you are coming here will be an adroit choice in the wake of examining this peace..

In a matter of seconds, lets get straight to the piece i have to discuss (MUST YOU BE LIKE EVERYONE?)!!

How regularly have you ever wished to be like that next person?

How regularly have you ever wished you were exceptional in connection to the individual you are?

Uncountable on the off chance that I by one means or another happened to meet you one on one and make this same request..

Yet we tend to neglect that "BIBLICALLY speaking" we were all made to stand-out and be remarkable.

I’ll use blogging as my case point here.

Am not a master regarding blogging yet rather from the little data I have about blogging so far I can say am satisfied being in my exceptional way.

You have to approach me for some what justifiable reason? I'l let you know..

When I started my blog (lets not go deep into the date and all that for its way back but with issues), I decided to be like every other top blogger in and around. 'No name explanations behind living', it helped me with getting a fancied thought and action however over the whole deal, I saw I lost quality in keeping some unflinching site visitors, so would you have the capacity to figure the accompanying move I made? I wager you can't figure right.

I put aside time out to advance two or three request..

Why am I blogging?

Why do I blog?

Who are my target Audience?
Here are the answer...

Am blogging for passion..

I blog to share my own specific individual experiences and lifestyle, offer news and tips on HEALTH, EVENTS AND OCCASSIONS I am incorporated with or I go to, INSPIRATIONALS/MOTIVATIONALS and in a way get some pay through it (after all there is an expression that hardwork and substance pays on the web)..

I plan passing energetic and uncommon message through this site.

I wish to accomplish an overall gathering of visitors where leXHansplaCE will be a channel point for the mentioned reasons of blogging..

Yet numerous people surge and bob into blogging like its just for diversion just, my dear 'blogging isn't as basic as some make it look, am up till now taking in an extensive measure in the field and still need to go higher than I am at this time'..

When you transform into the copy and paste journal proprietor or in the event that I say blogger, trust me you will be seen as the standard person who supports on society endeavors to blog. (You will get nowhere, I did it and stopped it even with no body inciting me).

At times you can decide to blog yet when you are not NICHED it transforms into a troublesome errand for you. Mine is CENTERED/NICHED on my specific CONTENTS/INSPIRATIONALS and HEALTH.

Do whatever it takes not to ask in respect to whether am immaculate in this 3 for I would not meander into it if I didn't understand what I was doing.

Right away over to you reading this.. Is it genuine that you are into blogging? Is it genuine that you are hoping to transform into one? On the other hand would you say you are just the regular or extra standard being..? Whichever case you fall into, trust me you would be better of knowing why you have to do anything in life 'not just blogging' and settle on that decision on doing what stands you out in the crowd of an enormous number..

Set yourself a couple of goals and destinations..

Portray your
goals and destinations..

plan your
goals and destinations.. 
 Don't just dream or wish for your goals and destinations,  Put it all into practice..

In whatever you do, endeavor to reliably be stand-out and predictable with a style 'your style' and you should hit the spot when the time is right..

*Note* 
For a couple of bloggers who will read this, and you are more impeccable than I am, please drop your COMMENTS AND RECOMMENDATIONS and I'l be glad to pick up from you.
For people who may see this as not basic, I'll be upbeat you let me know why..
What's more, a short time later for the people who will essentially copy this work of mine without giving credit... On the off chance that it's not all that much inconvenience credit my work through backlinks or whichever way you have to. (You can make usage of this yet giving me credit for this is the key).

I'll drop my pen now and go for the night as the atmosphere here in Awka says its chance to rest.

Goodnight and God support each one of us as we all get the opportunity to be one of a kind and intriguing in our doings.

78 comments:

  1. Lexhanplace and big grammar . Can you please explain in a nutshell?

    Bolateethole.blogspot.com

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    1. not grammar o, just in a nutshell, be the real you and never change for anything else...

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  2. Interesting blog. iLike.

    I can relate to "I blog to share my own specific individual experiences and lifestyle" cos that's basically why I blog too. Heart Rays

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  3. I am a firm believer in being yourself and not trying to be like anyone else. Be true to yourself and put yourself out there just as you are.

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  4. Thats why I love blogging as I can make it mine. For the most part, I do not have to follow a cookie cutter script

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    1. so true, you follow your heart and mind in what you do and your ideas will flourish.

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  5. When I started I wrote about whatever I wanted and didn't worry a thing about numbers or social media. After a couple of years I started to market the blog and when I did I started to think "maybe I'm not writing about what people want to hear" But when I wrote what I thought others wanted to read, my voice wasn't me. Now I'm back to doing my own thing and it's awesome!

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    1. to be unique and do your thing is way better and more rewarding.

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  6. "We Who Are Not As Others" is a Sepultura song. Your post reminded me of that song!

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    1. aw!!! a post reminding us about a song sure has a deep connection to us all.

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  7. You must be your true self and authentic. We all have a voice and life to share.

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    1. everyone voice should be their authority and power so its good to know how true this post makes us all feel.

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  8. We perform credibly when we do that which makes us happy regardless of what people think or feel about it. In blogging "Passion" is primary other things are secondary.

    Greetings from gidokblog

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  9. What works for some may not work for others. You can always compare yourself to where others are right now but you don't know what it took for them to get their, what their struggles are. Always do what works for you.

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  10. Very interesting piece you have here! It's important just to be yourself!

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  11. Blogging is what I LOVE To do in my life and it is my passion as well. I can not see myself doing anything else.

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    1. so sweet of you, am glad there are people who love blogging so much as i do.

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  12. I agree with you that blogging needs to come from our hearts and souls. It needs to be your passion or you won't love it and your readers won't love it.

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    1. so true, if you dont love what you dom clearly you cant give more.

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  13. Beautiful message, you should be your own person. Blogging is supposed to be a little personal, it has a piece of you and that what makes a blogger unique. It's good to follow your passion but never let go of who you are.

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  14. Bloggers must have that sense of self. I don't want to be just like every other blogger. I'd like to be as successful as they are but in my own way.

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    1. in our own little or big way God made us all unique. well said.

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  15. That´s a great post! I really think you can just be authentic if you are yourself

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    1. so real and true. we can and yes its the best.

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  16. I guess being unique is just being US, being ourselves and not caring on what others will say nor tell. I blog out of passion too. I guess we just love to share our experiences to others.

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    1. if you are unique, then you are truly yourself.

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  17. NOPE. I am me and that's that. I cannot be like anyone else and no one can be like me. We are all 100% different and completely unique.

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    1. i like your positivity. you are 100% true to you.

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  18. Yeah I think everyone is special and we just need to love ourselves. It's often understandable if you find yourself getting jealous of another person. But instead of hating them, we can always do things that will make ourselves better. www.clairebearblogs.com

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  19. I just love being myself and dont pretend someone else. We are all created as a unique person.

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  20. It's always nice to see someone also blogging purely out of the passion to blog and reach others with a message of positivity.

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    1. aw!!! thanks for this, i am sure you also do the same.

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  21. Such great advice. I always tell my daughter to follow her dreams.

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    1. thanks, please do, she is your responsibility and you watching over for her is good.

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  22. Being yourself is really important in order to keep going because you can't go far with other's choices :) Nice article!

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  23. You definitely need to look straight forward when you have a goal and not look back and not compare yourself to anyone else.

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    1. we live in a world where everyone compares themself to another person and it becomes hard to be original most times but like you said, we all need to look straight forward.

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  24. I totally agree with you that everyone has a unique personality as all the five fingers are not equal! I blog to share my experiences and influence others to live their life fullest!

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    1. uniqueness is the watchword, we should all learn to be this way.

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  25. Being yourself is the best advice I would give to any blogger. Far too many bloggers write what they thing others want to hear, and often it shows. I write for myself, but I love that others can share in that.

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    1. true spirit of being a blogger, writing from your thoughts to people to read and share.

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  26. Ah, I have never aspired to be like anybody else, ever. Perhaps that's just my ego or I'm just happy as I am.

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    1. good for your ego, good for your happiness.

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  27. Each blogger has their own approach to their work. I think it's great at it keeps things interesting.

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    1. thats the point, use your approach to keep things interesting.

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  28. Always be yourself and be confident. What a good motivational post. Thanks for sharing!

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  29. Being yourself is so important! As a newer blogger I am still learning about my voice but how I express myself as I write. Thank you for the great post!

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    1. you are welcome SOSM, am glad you liked the post.

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  30. People blog for all sorts of reasons, and as long as they are happy with their choices, I'm happy for them. I enjoy the creative outlet and blog interactions.

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    1. creativity is key to me Eliz as sure thats the most important to me.

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  31. Being yourself is who you should always be. I am a firm supporter of not faking anything and I also show that in my own blog.

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    1. no fake, no pretense, long and fulfilling life.

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  32. Wow what an awesome post and it's great to be confident and just be yourself but I have a really low confident due to others said about negative for me.

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    1. no time for negativity, am glad you liked it.

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  33. I would rather have less followers by being me than to have a gazillion following someone that I am not. Blogging is already hard work in itself. It would be more difficult to pretend to be someone else and come up with creative content. Just be you and go with the flow.

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    1. i like the idea of going with your own flow and being real.

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  34. Being yourself is very important! I saw a quote once that said something like "I'd rather be hated for who I am than loved for who I'm not," and I agree with that quote.

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  35. Awesome blog post and I thank you for sharing. Definitely made me think about the reasons I started blogging again and i agree, being yourself is the most important thing one has.

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  36. That's such a great post and really nice advice! Thank you for sharing it with us! So powerful and so true!

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  37. We believe that you should always be yourself and never try to be anyone else. It only gets you in to trouble if you do!

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    1. so true, we get into unwanted discomfort trying to be someone else.

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  38. This is a great blog post! Growing up as a twin I always struggled with being me and not her (if that makes sense) we are so similar that our personalities sometimes cross! But having grown up I'm a big believer in being true to yourself and not changing for anyone!

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